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Life Journey
Follow Benji and Giulietta's exciting stories as they journey through life.


Lindsay O'Connell
Jan 250 min read


The Reality Behind the Progress
When people see Benji and Giulietta's program today, what they are seeing is not how things have always been. This is the result of two decades of work that included failures, dead ends, and crises that made us question whether we could continue. The path was not straightforward. There were years when progress felt out of reach, when we were exhausted and desperate. The system offered no solutions, and we had to create something from nothing. There were crisis points that for
Lindsay O'Connell
Jan 253 min read


Giulietta’s First Steps
Like her brother Benji, we recognized that Giulietta had low muscle tone at birth. By three months of age, she was already behind in milestones, she had difficulty simply holding up her head. We had learned through trial and error of many different physical therapy, that MEDEK physical therapy was the most effective approach for advancing motor skills. So we enrolled Giulietta in MEDEK at just three months old. The exercises looked unusual to the untrained eye, like hanging h
Galit Kleiner
Nov 28, 20253 min read


Giulietta’s First Day of School
Giulietta was about eighteen months old when she first attended a neighbourhood program, accompanied by a nanny. At that age, she couldn’t communicate, walk independently, or participate in any activity without physical support and facilitation. Despite these constraints, Giulietta loved school. She loved desk activities that challenged her, puzzles, books, anything that engaged her mind. She especially loved circle time, particularly when there was music, which has always ca
Galit Kleiner
Nov 28, 20251 min read


Meeting Laura: A First Encounter That Changed Our Path
In 2011 we heard about the STEPs program summer camp. It was a special needs camp and I wanted to explore it to find out if it would be a good fit for the kids. I suggested that I would shadow for a day and then decide. However, I was informed that the staff at the program were well versed in navigating the teaching of disabled children. Given that my kids were medically fragile, I wasn't comfortable sending them to a camp without ensuring that the setting would be suited for
Galit Kleiner
Nov 25, 20256 min read


A Child Captivated by Work and Activity
When Benji was an infant, from the time he was about three months old, we would take him to coffee shops. There he was mesmerized by baristas making coffee. We would either prop him up on the counter or stand on the side of the counter holding Benji while he gazed tirelessly at all the activity, from the making of the coffee to the paying. He was mesmerized. As he got older, while he had little interest in playing or watching videos, he remained focused on kitchen tasks and a
Galit Kleiner
Nov 25, 20253 min read


Discovering the Right Learning Path for Benji
Following the nursery school experience and after researching other programs in the city, I realized that Benji would not fit into a traditional schooling model. What he needed was a small school with customized learning that would help him build foundational skills: basic things that others took for granted, like walking, pointing, holding a utensil, simple communication. At that time, we still believed there were off-the-shelf approaches that could benefit him if only we co
Galit Kleiner
Nov 25, 20253 min read


Summer Camp Experiences: Inclusion, Activity, and Fun for Benji and Giulietta
Camp Greenacres Summer Camp When Benji and Giulietta were younger, they had the chance to attend several summer camps, each offering meaningful experiences that supported their growth and confidence. Summer is such an important time in a child’s life, not just for fun and adventure, but for forming friendships, discovering new interests, and building a sense of independence. For Giulietta, camp became a space where they could explore, learn, and feel included alongside their
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 16, 20252 min read


What True Inclusion Looks Like: Benji and Giulietta on MJDS School Trips
School trips at MJDS have always been planned with inclusion in mind, and Benji and Giulietta have been active participants in every outing. From local excursions to trips to Montreal and Quebec City, the goal has always been for them to be fully involved alongside their classmates. Teachers, support staff, and peers worked together to make school activities accessible and engaging for every student. Classmates played an important role in inclusion by offering help when neede
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 16, 20252 min read


Benji’s Bar Mitzvah Celebration: Milestones, Memories, and Community
A Bar Mitzvah is a significant milestone in the Jewish faith, embarking on a transition into adulthood at the age of 13. Everyone at the school, from the Principal, Teachers, classmates, and parents of friends, and guests, came together to create a truly deeply meaningful celebration of Benji. By hosting this significant milestone at his school's synagogue, the event created a unique bridge between educational and cultural spaces where Benji had grown up. A Day of Recognit
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 16, 20251 min read


Benji’s Journey Through Surgery: Courage, Care, and Community Suppor
In 2017, Benji underwent bilateral derotation osteotomy surgery, a significant procedure that required him to take months off from his regular activities. This surgery was not just a physical challenge; it was a journey that encompassed much more than just recovery. Benji essentially had to relearn many of the basic skills we often take for granted, including how to walk. This process was undoubtedly daunting, but Benji faced it with remarkable bravery and resilience. Throu
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 16, 20251 min read


Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 16, 20250 min read


Benji’s Volunteering Journey at Baycrest: Learning Through Action
Benji has found a meaningful way to contribute to his community by volunteering at Baycrest, where he helps keep the cafeteria clean. Each Tuesday, Benji approaches his volunteer tasks with focus . Using his checklist, he gathers items like spray bottles and cloths and completes each step in order. The checklist provides a clear, visual guide that helps him stay organized and confident as he works. This structure allows him to complete his tasks independently and feel a sense
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 16, 20251 min read


Building Independence: Benji’s New Laneway Suite
Shovel to Ground: Benji's Laneway Suite For the past few years, Galit has been working closely with a builder to design the perfect laneway suite for Benji. Now 21 years old, Benji is ready for a space that reflects who he is and supports the life he deserves, one with purpose, dignity, and independence, while still ensuring he has the assistance he needs. The suite is being built in the backyard, allowing Benji to have his own home while staying connected to his family and f
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 15, 20251 min read


Benji Featured on Global News: Celebrating Work and Growth at IKEA
"Eighteen-year-old Benji Fisman was born with a rare genetic disorder yet despite his complex medical issues Fisman recently celebrated his first anniversary working at IKEA. A personalized plan was set in place to help Fisman achieve workplace goals. Today he's enjoying a life of remunerated employment, increased independence and a sense of belonging with a large and cohesive workplace team. Susan Hay has the story." - Global Celebrating Work and Growth Benji has been making
Lindsay O'Connell
Nov 15, 20251 min read


Understanding Phelan-McDermid Syndrome: Benji and Giulietta’s Journey
Phelan-McDermid Syndrome (PMS), also known as 22q13 deletion syndrome, is a rare genetic condition caused by the loss or dysfunction of the SHANK3 gene, along with other genes essential for building neural networks. SHANK3 plays a vital role in brain development, and its absence is one of the known genetic causes of autism spectrum disorder (ASD). While PMS affects each individual differently, Benji and Giulietta share this genetic diagnosis but experience it in their own uni
Galit Kleiner
Nov 7, 20252 min read


Giulietta’s Love for Music
Giulietta has always loved music. She lights up whenever she hears a guitar, ukulele, or piano, and she’s happiest when there’s music playing around her. Whether it’s a live band at a festival or someone strumming a tune at home, she’s completely captivated by the sounds and rhythms. Music brings her so much joy, it’s a big part of who she is. Giulietta developed a deep love for music from an early age and enjoyed listening to anyone play the guitar and her mom play the piano
Galit Kleiner
Nov 7, 20251 min read


Building Foundations: Benji and Giulietta’s Journey at Montessori Jewish Day School
Benji and Giulietta attended Montessori Jewish Day School (MJDS) in North York, Ontario, until age 16. Their educational journey was supported by dedicated 1:1 care educators who were instrumental in their development within the school system. This personalized arrangement provided complete oversight of their programming, establishing MJDS as a strong foundation for both academic learning and social development. Inclusive Learning Environment MJDS’s educational model set a p
Lindsay O'Connell
Oct 27, 20253 min read


Building A Purposeful Life
This guide outlines how we built a purposeful, balanced life for Benji and Giulietta, one rooted in vision, connection, growth, and empowerment. Each step reflects a lived process: lessons learned, strategies refined, and goals that continue to evolve. Step One: Clarifying Our Vision It began with a simple question: What does growth look like for Benji and Giulietta? Once we understood that, everything else fell into place. Our choices, goals, and supports started aligning ar
Lindsay O'Connell
Oct 26, 20253 min read


Building Friendships and Skills: Benji's Journey at Windreach Farm
Every Friday, Benji takes part in a social program at Windreach Farm, where he engages with peers his age in a variety of hands-on activities that promote skill development, independence, and community connection. His responsibilities at the farm are diverse and meaningful. He contributes to maintaining the property through cleaning, raking, and weeding, keeping the farm environment safe and welcoming for everyone. Benji also works in the greenhouse and garden, planting seeds
Lindsay O'Connell
Oct 21, 20252 min read
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